Birthday Thought

Birthdays.
Complicated.
You grow a year old and people still wish you for a great life.
When is life ever great if you are old?

Chasing the Unexplained

Certain things in life can not be explained.
We try and reason out everything in our life but do we really get the answers? The World still continues to spin and nothing really changes if we don't find answers.
But, that certainly doesn't mean that we just let go and leave a pursuit.
Maybe that is life and that is what we live for.

Combination of Factors!

Most of the things in life occur as a result of combination of factors.

Our birth for instance, is the most amazing example of how the factors work. Starting from the fastest sperm piercing the egg to reaching the zone under optimum conditions for further growth and development to deciding whether it will be a combination of X or Y chromosomes to changes in the zygote for a single or a multiple creation, its all about combination of factors.

Now as we emerge into the World of reality, we realise that every step of our life is pre-decided, destineed. And what decides that, is again some more combination of factors. Our parents sort out and filter out the best of education they can provide us, the best of food, the best of clothing they can afford and overall the best of life that they can share with us. Starting from quality to financial feasability, they really do a series of complex mathematics to decide all that.

Once we grow old enough, a combination of factors decide whether we can sustain our own living or not. Are we financially independent? Can we face the cruel, ruthless World? Ok, lets say, we can overcome those factors and can pretty much manage our living, then will come the next question, Are we good enough? Are we better than our competitors? And what do we do to be the best?. These questions will take us back to the start and more questions will pop up. So our parents gave us the best they could afford, so that means we had the best since childhood, but does that mean we will be outstanding? Not necessarily.Are we intelligent - Again the same combination of factors: Depends..1 Genetics - If our parents were intelligent, chances are we will inherit a part of it. 2. Practical - Have we done enough learning in life to make ourselves intelligent. We may have or may not have. So, end result is till we meet someone better, we can call ourselves the best.

Thus over a period of time, knowingly or unknowingly we realise how much our life and existence is governed by various combination of factors and those will stay till our last breath which too depends heavily on these combinations.

I don't know if it is a good or a bad thing to be governed by a set of factors but I certainly believe there is no escape from it, maybe even an escape will require certain perfect combinations!

Of Togetherness!!

Togetherness...
Its a special feeling when you realise that the person you love the most is always there with you, in good times and in bad.
Its more than 4 years of togetherness for us but I am still charmed by him.What is it that makes him so irrestible, I don't know, maybe its the warmth in his signature style or the kindness that he exudes... the truth is whatever it is, I am completely swooned and floored by him.
I know people think I am crazy to still think the way I think about him after all these years but maybe those people do not know that love increases as we grow old.
Ours certainly has.I still can not think of a single day without him.
He is more than an addiction.
He is someone who makes me laugh and cry at the same time, someone who pesters me till I burst out with irritation, someone who knows what it takes to calm me when I am disturbed, someone who enjoys life as much as I do.
He is the perfect for me.
I have been told by many that there is no 'perfect' relationship. I love to prove it wrong each day.
Many a times I am asked if I am possessive about him, well I am possessive but certainly not over-possessive and we both know why. We give each other the space needed to make ours a 'perfect' relationship.
I may not know a lot about everything but I certainly know what togetherness means and
my life with him means the world to me..